Christmas

Its that time of year again, the build up to Christmas has well and truly started.  All the adverts are on now showing the perfect families, kids opening their gifts on christmas morning, big smiling faces.  The shops are full of things to buy, the christmas music is blasting out.

But spare a thought for those who don’t have that child to buy for this year.  I would love to be going to the toys shops, spoiling James rotten, but that wont be happening this year or any other year.

Times like Christmas are very hard for family’s who have lost a child, theres anger, sadness and upset.  So be gentle with those familys if they don’t want to take part in the secret santa or wear the jumpers.  And please please please never complain about christmas being too stressful, take time and spend it with your loved ones, that’s worth more than hundreds of pounds of toys.

We were blessed to have had one christmas with James and for that we will always be grateful, not everyone is so lucky x