Does Time Really Heal

That is the million dollar question when you have lost a child to sids or sudc and to be honest, I don’t think it really does.

Time makes it harder, all those milestones you miss.  For us time will alway stand still at 16 months.  No more Christmases, no 1st day at school, no more holiday memories. Sometimes you can feel guilty for feeling like that, envy of others who get to do all these things. Always wondering what sort of man James would have turned out to be.

But despite all of that, we wouldn’t have changed a thing.  We have so many great memories, yes we would love James to still be here, but it wasnt to be and to make it worse we have no answers why it wasnt to be.  But that’s just the way it is.

But one things is for sure we will never forget him.

So all you families out there who have lost a child, stay strong, keep those memories alive, talk about your lost child.